Reposting from O Healer, heal Thyself She tells me to close my eyes and take in a few deep, cleansing breaths. I imagine him in front of me - as handsome, attractive and Beautiful as ever - I can feel the tugging on my solar plexus and my heart energy centres as we both work on completely releasing all remaining cords and attachments that attach me to him - I'm supposed to ask myself what are the core, underlying reasons or issues that allow me to hook into him and him into me - months after there is no contact and no encouragement or remainder fondness from him - I don't exist in his world But it's so bloody painful having to let him go, consciously choosing to let those who wish to leave, leave my life as we've both served the purposes and reasons that drew us together in the first place To not cling onto self-created memories of a mythical connection and romance My heart literally feels the tugs as the last remnants of the attachment are released - I have t...