He read it early this morning but hasn't had the time to respond... I may have gone overboard... never mind. Obviously still need to learn how to balance my emotions and not spread them to others... I should have read my horoscope again before replying...
"You are perhaps a little ahead of yourself with your ideas today, dear Aries. Even though not everyone will want to go along with your plans, you're nevertheless feeling confident and hopeful. Do be wary of over-stating, however. Be creative but keep it real because empty promises, no matter how good-intentioned they are, will have a way of biting back later. Another thing to watch for is "living in your head" a little too much now to the point that you may be insensitive in your interactions today."
I got too excited... he reminds me a lot of Imran. Such a silly girl I can be.
I forget that just because I can tell we have a past/future life conenction, doesn't mean that they don't. Besides, most of them who have come only came to help me, or me help them.... heal. Umair, Imran, Ali... and now Ihsan.
Also, not that I'm following this to the letter, as it's my logical mind kicking into old patterns, but:
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premonitions you may have. Someone you meet sparks your interest, but you
Whatever, I still haven't given myself permission to meet my soul mate... lol.... it's over, this 6 soul mate year...
Personal Year Six
May all of them be blessed and safe from my Darth Vader tendencies... I shall bring the Luke Skywalker light to them all... miracle ehaler that I am ;)
But, tell me, how can it be that their names are similar too :P I had no originality... Imran and Ihsan :P
And now, on a spur of moment thing, I am going out to roam central London with Nicole. Said yes to her text / the Universe. What was I going to do at home? Blog more crap? Pretend to look for work. Look up my soulmate reading again? Wait for Sidra to contact me... lol.
Money is energy.
Trust in God.
26 March 2012
Lol.
Okay, everything's cleared. Thank you :)
I really wasn't making a big deal of it, as such, since I trust in God and am protected anyway, you seem to be a nice enough guy, I'm just getting to know you and kind of get the idea that... well, I am kind of intuitive and realise things quickly... well, we'll see.
Oh well, I tend to be kind of hasty and fatalistic, but I'll be up front again and say that I don't see this going down the matrimonial route, for reasons best known to me :), but obviously there's a reason why we are connecting. So I hope we both are easily and rapidly given the knowledge and wisdom to know what that is... I just hope it's not more balancing of karma. That hurts! And I'm a little tired of it :)
It's all unfolding perfectly. Everything is an experience, right?
There are no mistakes, coincidences or shortcuts.
I just wanted to get the truth from the only person who would be able to tell me - you, since this information just randomly came into my awareness, without my looking for it. People mash up things and, well, since I had already been told, I wanted to know why I had been told... so we were both on the same page.
So thank you for clearing it up... it is much appreciated :)
Guilt and worry are entirely useless emotions ~ Wayne Dyer
So - what now? You mentioned that I haven't said anything about myself. What would you like to know?
I guided you to my FB account and my blog so you would get an idea of the person I am.... but hey, I realise that I can be too subtle for most blokes!
So, what would you like to know?
Have a great Monday... :)
Sukaina
P.S. Photos are now visible. What the heck - cat photos are cute :)
Oh, and as for them not accepting your solitary photo on this website, did you think to email Sara to ask? It might be because it's not a full head shot.
And yes, intro emails are good enough for lazy boys, I suppose ;) Except when my very astute friend can totally tell that it is one and laughs her head off and tells me. Which shows how gullible people can still be, after everything.
A lot of people keep talking about "this guy from South Africa".
One piece of advice, from a woman, you might want to cut out the drought and fishing analogy... it's quite misogynistic :P
Oh, and you might want to reply to my friend on this website... just out of courtesy :)
God, I can be such a ball basher sometimes... I hope you don't mind :)
On Mon, Mar 26, 2012 at 04:47 PM
from - Ihsan
Hey ya, thanks Sukaina, appreciated.
I’m sure you’d understand, it is a big deal for me. It is my Izzat at the end of the day. It’s my dignity. It’s my integrity.
As I said, my conscience is clean and I can defend myself in the court of Allah on this. The fact that info about me randomly came into your awareness without looking for it – is scary!! So how did that happen? What more is there floating around about me? Surely what you have shared can’t be everything?! Everybody needs to add their spice to make it a riveting read lol!!!!!!!
People who are spreading negative things about me need to exercise a greater sense of responsibility.
It is obviously annoying when my dignity and integrity is questioned unfairly, which ruins my opportunity to progress with anyone. It’s always easy for people to attribute filth to me in my absence. That’s not how spirituality is developed. Rather, that’s how spirituality is surrendered.
Who’s your friend? Is it Saida? Just to let you know, I didn’t find it appropriate to be speaking to more than one person at a time. I decided to devote all my attention to you as I thought there is potential to explore. Tell me now, honestly, how would you have felt if I were to be speaking to you and somebody else simultaneously?? I’m afraid I don’t operate that way. I’m not into hurting people.
So that’s the reason why I didn’t reply to her or speak to anybody else. But I guess since you are conclusive and unambiguous about this not going anywhere, you would now be fine with me speaking to somebody else?? But plz, and I beg you, if your conclusion is because of something you don’t like in me then I’d like to know, as it is then something I should address and rectify within myself. And more importantly, if it is something that you’ve heard about me then I’m more curious!
So what are people saying about “this guy from SA”??
Once again, I need to thank you for your honesty!
My pic is a perfectly clear one of me seated in a restaurant. Don’t know what the issue is with this site refusing…
I’m always keen to keep in touch on a platonic friendly basis if you wish. I leave that for you to decide. I’d also perfectly understand if you don’t want to.
So lemme conclude this note with what I was muttering to myself when I viewed your pics: “She’s well presentable (definitely worth a second look!) and has good wit (I like that!!) I can’t stand the boring type!! She’s cool. But it aint going anywhere. That she made clear.”
Khair IA
26 March 2012, 8:23pm
Lol. You're hilarious, you know? :D "Izzat, haya aur effat"... lol.
I told you I had a rough week... the past came back to haunt me, too :P
Well, what can one expect: it's a bloody Mercury Retrograde in Aries. Every Mercury Retrograde, the past comes up to teach you something or other. Past loves especially, for some crap reason. Communications have "potential" to go awry i.e. misunderstandings. It's an excellent time for intuitive development... yeah, whatever. Still has to happen for me, at least :P
As I said, you cleared everything. I wasn't looking for it. Whatever. End of. I was just protecting my back. Good thing you seem to be as honest and up front as I am. Let's see... :) Nothing else has come into my awareness... YET! Lol.
I'm as removed from the community as I can possibly be without inducing a complete identity crisis... anyway.
Point is, I DON'T CARE! In the nicest possible way :) I have my own stuff to deal with. It's 2012. I can only manage my crap, not anyone else's ;)
No one said anything derogatory about you... understand that. They stated facts. You were engaged. Something about an istekhara and then breaking it off. NOT MY BUSINESS. I prefer guys with no history or experience, is all.
Out of intellectual and spiritual curiosity, if you feel that people are talking "dirty" about you, have you asked yourself why you're attracting that kind of behaviour in people? :) Apart from the obvious, that people have no lives... lol.
I actually really appreciate and am grateful that you feel that it's only fair to speak to one person at a time. Makes me feel special lol. And yes, of course it would be "weird" to have a guy speak to many people at the same time... well, maybe not in the beginning, since it's understandable, and if there was another guy, I'd be speaking to more than one in the beginning....
But maybe after there was a proper connection established... then it would not be a nice feeling AT ALL, having being on the receiving end in the past. One feels used. So yes, I do appreciate it... A LOT.
I only feel that emails need to be answered. The person took out time to write to you. You can tell them nicely "I ain't interested.../ I'm talking to someone else" - pretty much the way I did :) And anyway, one or another of our patron saints said that a letter is an "amanah" which needs to be replied to... good thing I don't have to lecture you on this... :)
Doesn't matter who my friend is, point is you obviously have some more correspondence to reply to after this one ;)
Okay, since you asked: you live in South Africa and I am not planning to move there, you seem to be slightly more religious than I am, you remind me so much of the last guy and that's lighting up and triggering a lot of things for me... I mean, I am obviously not over him if I am actually talking about him to you, am I? And he only went and got married two months ago. How sad am I? :D
And.... possibly comes as the first reason, but I'm trying to be kind while being honest.... I am not physically attracted to you at all. Told ya I was superficial :)
Plus, other reasons, but those are to do with me and my kooky reality :)
Well, I told you to email Sara @ SimplyShia to ASK why they won't put your photo up! And... here's a thought, TAKE A COUPLE OF NEW PHOTOS! Why do I keep on having to coach guys on this website about their profiles... I should be in charge of the website! Lol. I feel like a bossy boots big sister :P
I have found yet another someone on my wavelength, who writes good emails and is funny, who thinks I am funny and doesn't take offense to me being exactly who I am... as in completely honest and cheeky... I haven't had to pretend to be nice or not "weird" with you this entire time - and that is VERY cool!
And we obviously have some sort of good rapport going on... you think I'm going to let you run away that easily? Of course we can be "platonic" friends... I'll make you respect Mother Earth yet... BP, my ****!!!
The good news is I do well with email-based relationships. The guys here who have asked to meet me have gotten fed up, because I still haven't gotten up the guts to do so :P
I must warn you... not sure how long it might last. My track record hasn't been exactly stellar. I think it's when I throw a hissy fit and delete people off of my FB and other social network lists. They sometimes don't add you back, or accept your request after you've cooled down. Lol. Lessons learned in life: get a life, and skip the virtual one.
Laddie, I am more than "well presentable", I'm stunningly beautiful - and I know it! Do you now understand why I hide my photos? I've had to speak to guys who didn't even get to the second line of my profile. I've had to remove Urdu from my list of languages for the same reason. I had to give them all a chance and it was a lot of time wasting, IMHO. I don't like hurting people either and some of them reacted REALLY badly... after one Skype call. Sigh. I need to learn how to say no in a way that is empowering for both parties... wait, I said it pretty nicely to you... Lol. I must be improving in my rejection skills :)
And yes, I can be funny when I want to, as long I keep my sarcasm in check... I do have claws which are used quite regularly :) So please don't take offence, I probably am not aware enough at the time, so you can always let me know if I overstep the entire "respect" thingybob. I can be a little impetuous sometimes... working on it :)
I think I like you a little more now. Result!
Have a great Tuesday.
Sukaina :)
P.S. If you want to communicate elsewhere... send me a message on Facebook. Or my email address is sukaina@ymail.com
Doreen Virtue Official Fan Page
When times are tough, then it's time to release and surrender everything to God. Let go emotionally, so that the infinite mind of God has room to bring creative solutions to your situation. Everything is possible to God. Keep the faith, and keep going because we need you! With love and respect, Doreen
"You are perhaps a little ahead of yourself with your ideas today, dear Aries. Even though not everyone will want to go along with your plans, you're nevertheless feeling confident and hopeful. Do be wary of over-stating, however. Be creative but keep it real because empty promises, no matter how good-intentioned they are, will have a way of biting back later. Another thing to watch for is "living in your head" a little too much now to the point that you may be insensitive in your interactions today."
I got too excited... he reminds me a lot of Imran. Such a silly girl I can be.
I forget that just because I can tell we have a past/future life conenction, doesn't mean that they don't. Besides, most of them who have come only came to help me, or me help them.... heal. Umair, Imran, Ali... and now Ihsan.
Also, not that I'm following this to the letter, as it's my logical mind kicking into old patterns, but:
Your Personal Month for March 2012 is 1
Sukaina, March is a 1 Personal Month in a 7 Personal Year and, while you may
still have a case of the blues on the early days of this month, March soon brings
optimism, increased energy, and excitement. You are intellectually sharp and
imaginative. You feel that anything is possible and that the sky is the limit.
Against the background of self-reflection and soul-searching that's such a
major part of this year is this month's sense of spring-time in your heart. This is
an excellent time to take on new challenges in your career, to start new
endeavors, or, if you are in business or sales, to go out and snare that important
new client.
Often, this month brings financial gain, but your attention is more directed
towards intellectual accomplishments. Your pride and self-esteem get a boost.
A more difficult aspect of this month is your relationship with loved ones. You
lack the necessary sensitivity to respond properly to the needs of those close to
you. Sukaina, you are under the illusion that everyone feels the way you do; that
problems are only minor impediments that can be taken in stride. However, your
optimistic attitude also inspires them, and they grudgingly respect you for the way
you seem to be handling things.
A romantic experience brings passion and excitement either late this month or
early next month.
Your Personal Month for April 2012 is 2
Sukaina, April is a 2 Personal Month in a 7 Personal year. Now the pendulum
swings back from the insensitivity of last month to heightened awareness,
especially of others. You are aware of the emotional subtleties that lie beneath
the surfaces. You take nothing for granted. Your wisdom and diplomacy will
surprise people and prevent several situations from becoming explosive.
Relationships with both subordinates and higher-ups will improve. You receive
support and are well-spoken of. Your intuition is keen; rely on it, and respect any
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premonitions you may have. Someone you meet sparks your interest, but you
may find that the person is unstable and fragile. You play the role of teacher and
counselor in this relationship.
Sukaina, your understanding and intuition also offer you the means to heal
formerly difficult relationships this month.
Whatever, I still haven't given myself permission to meet my soul mate... lol.... it's over, this 6 soul mate year...
Personal Year Six
A personal year 6 has the following meaning: Finding A Soul Mate, Love, Family and Home
A personal year 6 intensifies feelings in existing relationships and enables you to make new emotional connections. Many people find a soul mate during this phase. You are must likely to get married or engaged during this harmonious year. Although this can be a wonderful experience it can also be sobering as well it often presents a choice: to make a commitment or not. You may also prefer more to spend more time with family or an intimate circle of friends. A friend that you meet during this cycle is likely to become a friend for life.
Ouch, my tummy started hurting again... it's been since yesterday.. and the heart - more cords releasing from Imran... finally. Because I read those words and realised he did it... he learnt his 6 Karmic lesson.
My this 2012 year is:
A personal year 6 intensifies feelings in existing relationships and enables you to make new emotional connections. Many people find a soul mate during this phase. You are must likely to get married or engaged during this harmonious year. Although this can be a wonderful experience it can also be sobering as well it often presents a choice: to make a commitment or not. You may also prefer more to spend more time with family or an intimate circle of friends. A friend that you meet during this cycle is likely to become a friend for life.
Ouch, my tummy started hurting again... it's been since yesterday.. and the heart - more cords releasing from Imran... finally. Because I read those words and realised he did it... he learnt his 6 Karmic lesson.
My this 2012 year is:
A personal year 7 is for Reflection, Learning, and Self Analysis
Even if you have a reputation of an extrovert, a year 7 is likely to put you in the mood to be alone. You may feel like pursuing your interests, travelling or finding a way to escape from business pressures. A year 7 is like a coccooning stage for the psyche, in which you analyze, reflect and try to shed any behaviors, relationships or patterns that may be preventing your personal growth. This year also favors any kind of self-improvement including surgical operations, seeking counseling or therapy or seeking higher education.
Even if you have a reputation of an extrovert, a year 7 is likely to put you in the mood to be alone. You may feel like pursuing your interests, travelling or finding a way to escape from business pressures. A year 7 is like a coccooning stage for the psyche, in which you analyze, reflect and try to shed any behaviors, relationships or patterns that may be preventing your personal growth. This year also favors any kind of self-improvement including surgical operations, seeking counseling or therapy or seeking higher education.
May all of them be blessed and safe from my Darth Vader tendencies... I shall bring the Luke Skywalker light to them all... miracle ehaler that I am ;)
But, tell me, how can it be that their names are similar too :P I had no originality... Imran and Ihsan :P
And now, on a spur of moment thing, I am going out to roam central London with Nicole. Said yes to her text / the Universe. What was I going to do at home? Blog more crap? Pretend to look for work. Look up my soulmate reading again? Wait for Sidra to contact me... lol.
Money is energy.
Trust in God.
26 March 2012
Lol.
Okay, everything's cleared. Thank you :)
I really wasn't making a big deal of it, as such, since I trust in God and am protected anyway, you seem to be a nice enough guy, I'm just getting to know you and kind of get the idea that... well, I am kind of intuitive and realise things quickly... well, we'll see.
Oh well, I tend to be kind of hasty and fatalistic, but I'll be up front again and say that I don't see this going down the matrimonial route, for reasons best known to me :), but obviously there's a reason why we are connecting. So I hope we both are easily and rapidly given the knowledge and wisdom to know what that is... I just hope it's not more balancing of karma. That hurts! And I'm a little tired of it :)
It's all unfolding perfectly. Everything is an experience, right?
There are no mistakes, coincidences or shortcuts.
I just wanted to get the truth from the only person who would be able to tell me - you, since this information just randomly came into my awareness, without my looking for it. People mash up things and, well, since I had already been told, I wanted to know why I had been told... so we were both on the same page.
So thank you for clearing it up... it is much appreciated :)
Guilt and worry are entirely useless emotions ~ Wayne Dyer
So - what now? You mentioned that I haven't said anything about myself. What would you like to know?
I guided you to my FB account and my blog so you would get an idea of the person I am.... but hey, I realise that I can be too subtle for most blokes!
So, what would you like to know?
Have a great Monday... :)
Sukaina
P.S. Photos are now visible. What the heck - cat photos are cute :)
Oh, and as for them not accepting your solitary photo on this website, did you think to email Sara to ask? It might be because it's not a full head shot.
And yes, intro emails are good enough for lazy boys, I suppose ;) Except when my very astute friend can totally tell that it is one and laughs her head off and tells me. Which shows how gullible people can still be, after everything.
A lot of people keep talking about "this guy from South Africa".
One piece of advice, from a woman, you might want to cut out the drought and fishing analogy... it's quite misogynistic :P
Oh, and you might want to reply to my friend on this website... just out of courtesy :)
God, I can be such a ball basher sometimes... I hope you don't mind :)
On Mon, Mar 26, 2012 at 04:47 PM
from - Ihsan
Hey ya, thanks Sukaina, appreciated.
I’m sure you’d understand, it is a big deal for me. It is my Izzat at the end of the day. It’s my dignity. It’s my integrity.
As I said, my conscience is clean and I can defend myself in the court of Allah on this. The fact that info about me randomly came into your awareness without looking for it – is scary!! So how did that happen? What more is there floating around about me? Surely what you have shared can’t be everything?! Everybody needs to add their spice to make it a riveting read lol!!!!!!!
People who are spreading negative things about me need to exercise a greater sense of responsibility.
It is obviously annoying when my dignity and integrity is questioned unfairly, which ruins my opportunity to progress with anyone. It’s always easy for people to attribute filth to me in my absence. That’s not how spirituality is developed. Rather, that’s how spirituality is surrendered.
Who’s your friend? Is it Saida? Just to let you know, I didn’t find it appropriate to be speaking to more than one person at a time. I decided to devote all my attention to you as I thought there is potential to explore. Tell me now, honestly, how would you have felt if I were to be speaking to you and somebody else simultaneously?? I’m afraid I don’t operate that way. I’m not into hurting people.
So that’s the reason why I didn’t reply to her or speak to anybody else. But I guess since you are conclusive and unambiguous about this not going anywhere, you would now be fine with me speaking to somebody else?? But plz, and I beg you, if your conclusion is because of something you don’t like in me then I’d like to know, as it is then something I should address and rectify within myself. And more importantly, if it is something that you’ve heard about me then I’m more curious!
So what are people saying about “this guy from SA”??
Once again, I need to thank you for your honesty!
My pic is a perfectly clear one of me seated in a restaurant. Don’t know what the issue is with this site refusing…
I’m always keen to keep in touch on a platonic friendly basis if you wish. I leave that for you to decide. I’d also perfectly understand if you don’t want to.
So lemme conclude this note with what I was muttering to myself when I viewed your pics: “She’s well presentable (definitely worth a second look!) and has good wit (I like that!!) I can’t stand the boring type!! She’s cool. But it aint going anywhere. That she made clear.”
Khair IA
26 March 2012, 8:23pm
Lol. You're hilarious, you know? :D "Izzat, haya aur effat"... lol.
I told you I had a rough week... the past came back to haunt me, too :P
Well, what can one expect: it's a bloody Mercury Retrograde in Aries. Every Mercury Retrograde, the past comes up to teach you something or other. Past loves especially, for some crap reason. Communications have "potential" to go awry i.e. misunderstandings. It's an excellent time for intuitive development... yeah, whatever. Still has to happen for me, at least :P
As I said, you cleared everything. I wasn't looking for it. Whatever. End of. I was just protecting my back. Good thing you seem to be as honest and up front as I am. Let's see... :) Nothing else has come into my awareness... YET! Lol.
I'm as removed from the community as I can possibly be without inducing a complete identity crisis... anyway.
Point is, I DON'T CARE! In the nicest possible way :) I have my own stuff to deal with. It's 2012. I can only manage my crap, not anyone else's ;)
No one said anything derogatory about you... understand that. They stated facts. You were engaged. Something about an istekhara and then breaking it off. NOT MY BUSINESS. I prefer guys with no history or experience, is all.
Out of intellectual and spiritual curiosity, if you feel that people are talking "dirty" about you, have you asked yourself why you're attracting that kind of behaviour in people? :) Apart from the obvious, that people have no lives... lol.
I actually really appreciate and am grateful that you feel that it's only fair to speak to one person at a time. Makes me feel special lol. And yes, of course it would be "weird" to have a guy speak to many people at the same time... well, maybe not in the beginning, since it's understandable, and if there was another guy, I'd be speaking to more than one in the beginning....
But maybe after there was a proper connection established... then it would not be a nice feeling AT ALL, having being on the receiving end in the past. One feels used. So yes, I do appreciate it... A LOT.
I only feel that emails need to be answered. The person took out time to write to you. You can tell them nicely "I ain't interested.../ I'm talking to someone else" - pretty much the way I did :) And anyway, one or another of our patron saints said that a letter is an "amanah" which needs to be replied to... good thing I don't have to lecture you on this... :)
Doesn't matter who my friend is, point is you obviously have some more correspondence to reply to after this one ;)
Okay, since you asked: you live in South Africa and I am not planning to move there, you seem to be slightly more religious than I am, you remind me so much of the last guy and that's lighting up and triggering a lot of things for me... I mean, I am obviously not over him if I am actually talking about him to you, am I? And he only went and got married two months ago. How sad am I? :D
And.... possibly comes as the first reason, but I'm trying to be kind while being honest.... I am not physically attracted to you at all. Told ya I was superficial :)
Plus, other reasons, but those are to do with me and my kooky reality :)
Well, I told you to email Sara @ SimplyShia to ASK why they won't put your photo up! And... here's a thought, TAKE A COUPLE OF NEW PHOTOS! Why do I keep on having to coach guys on this website about their profiles... I should be in charge of the website! Lol. I feel like a bossy boots big sister :P
I have found yet another someone on my wavelength, who writes good emails and is funny, who thinks I am funny and doesn't take offense to me being exactly who I am... as in completely honest and cheeky... I haven't had to pretend to be nice or not "weird" with you this entire time - and that is VERY cool!
And we obviously have some sort of good rapport going on... you think I'm going to let you run away that easily? Of course we can be "platonic" friends... I'll make you respect Mother Earth yet... BP, my ****!!!
The good news is I do well with email-based relationships. The guys here who have asked to meet me have gotten fed up, because I still haven't gotten up the guts to do so :P
I must warn you... not sure how long it might last. My track record hasn't been exactly stellar. I think it's when I throw a hissy fit and delete people off of my FB and other social network lists. They sometimes don't add you back, or accept your request after you've cooled down. Lol. Lessons learned in life: get a life, and skip the virtual one.
Laddie, I am more than "well presentable", I'm stunningly beautiful - and I know it! Do you now understand why I hide my photos? I've had to speak to guys who didn't even get to the second line of my profile. I've had to remove Urdu from my list of languages for the same reason. I had to give them all a chance and it was a lot of time wasting, IMHO. I don't like hurting people either and some of them reacted REALLY badly... after one Skype call. Sigh. I need to learn how to say no in a way that is empowering for both parties... wait, I said it pretty nicely to you... Lol. I must be improving in my rejection skills :)
And yes, I can be funny when I want to, as long I keep my sarcasm in check... I do have claws which are used quite regularly :) So please don't take offence, I probably am not aware enough at the time, so you can always let me know if I overstep the entire "respect" thingybob. I can be a little impetuous sometimes... working on it :)
I think I like you a little more now. Result!
Have a great Tuesday.
Sukaina :)
P.S. If you want to communicate elsewhere... send me a message on Facebook. Or my email address is sukaina@ymail.com
Doreen Virtue Official Fan Page
When times are tough, then it's time to release and surrender everything to God. Let go emotionally, so that the infinite mind of God has room to bring creative solutions to your situation. Everything is possible to God. Keep the faith, and keep going because we need you! With love and respect, Doreen
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